Why do we teach teens and adults about abstinence? We do so because our mission is to strengthen our community by preventing unintended pregnancy and empowering individuals with the knowledge, opportunity and freedom to make private decisions about reproductive and sexual health. Abstinence is a common-sense option for some teens and adults who choose to delay sexual activity or to plan their parenthood. We recognize that abstinence is a choice some teens prefer and one many parents encourage.
What is abstinence?
Abstinence means different things to different people. For some, abstinence from sexual intercourse means avoiding vaginal, anal, and oral-genital intercourse altogether. For others, it means avoiding any type of sexual or intimate contact, including hugging and kissing. On this page, it refers to not having sexual intercourse.
What are the advantages of choosing abstinence?
- Abstinence is free and available to all.
- Abstinence is extremely effective at preventing both infection and pregnancy. It is the only 100% effective method of preventing unintended pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
- Abstinence can be practiced at any time in one's life.
- Abstinence may encourage people to build relationships in other ways.
- Abstinence may be the course of action which you feel is right for you and makes you feel good about yourself.
What are the disadvantages?
- If you’re counting on abstinence, and change your mind in the heat of the moment, it’s important to have a back-up plan for preventing pregnancy and STIs.
- Many people find it difficult to abstain from sexual intercourse for long periods of time.
- Some people practicing abstinence may not have adequate skills in communicating their commitment to abstinence to partners.
Where can I learn more?
What you do sexually is an important decision. So start by thinking it through carefully yourself. You may want to discuss your decision with another person whom you respect. You may want to talk it over with your parents or your partner. Contact your local Planned Parenthood for educational programs that teach the skills necessary for one to effectively utilize abstinence.
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